Star Splanged

Yesterday was Flag Day. And we celebrated late in the day. Well, not in some grandiose fashion. But we did pause during the day to learn, appreciate and commemorate the occasion. We talked about the stars and the stripes, and what they represent. We talked about the freedom we have in this country, and how our flag represents that kind of freedom, to the world. We talked about how we, as Americans come across the world. How their view of us has changed over time. We talked about the men and women who have given their lives for our freedom. We talked about the leaders who began our country and those who serve us today as government leaders. We talked about our responsibilities as citizens. Our responsibilities in our community to stand up for others, make a difference and pitch in with solutions rather than complain. We talked about making a difference and looking for ways to serve others.

We had a nice talk in the car. On the way to the cemetery.

We discussed. And remembered. And taught each other what we knew. The twins talked about what they have learned about our government in their 9 years of life. Tatum shared about the Civil Rights Movement, and the leaders who paved the way for equality for minorities and all Americans. This is an issue dear to her heart. Tucker shared about the different wars he has studied (and even played on his video games).

Then we parked the car. And said nothing.

We walked between the memorial markers at the Marietta National Military Cemetery. The children studied the names and dates of soldiers who had given their lives for freedom--in honor of the flag and what it represents. They were stunned by the massive amounts of markers in the cemetery (several thousand). Impacted by the hills covered with white headstones. They were silenced and in awe. Seeing the headstones made more of an impression than dozens of conversations or lessons and tests from history books.

Mom Thought: Yesterday, I taught my children how to "give pause." A skill. A too-often overlooked ability to show reverence, respect and appreciation. We are all looking forward to July 4th, with a little more appreciation than before.